Looking to Reclaim That Connection With Yourself or Your Partner?

My approach to Centered Sexuality© will guide you through a process to identify what you want and how to get it. I'm all  about facilitating education, empowerment, and exploration so that you can approach and enjoy your intimate and sexual life in a way that feels fulfilling to you.

Looking to Reclaim That Connection With Yourself or Your Partner?

My approach, to Centered Sexuality© will guide you through a process to identify what you want and how to get it. I'm all about facilitating education, empowerment, and exploration so that you can approach and enjoy your intimate and sexual life in a way that feels fulfilling to you.

Looking to Reclaim That Connection With Yourself or Your Partner?

My approach to Centered Sexuality© will guide you through a process to identify what you want and how to get it. I'm all about facilitating education, empowerment, and exploration so that you can approach and enjoy your intimate and sexual life in a way that feels fulfilling to you.

Wendy Wolski sex coach

Recalibrating Your Centered Sexuality

Over time, it’s easy to get lost in the day to day, we become disconnected from ourselves and our partners. LIfe is busy, work and family demands-not to mention living through a pandemic- grind on and we start to accept that “life gets in the way”.  Our relationships with ourselves, our partners and our eroticism slip to the back burner…. But it doesn’t have to be that way. Clients who take a step back to reestablish a relationship with themselves can bring vibrant energy, focus and fulfillment in every area of their life.

Who Hires a Sex Coach Anyway?

Many people seek sex education or intimacy coaching with me because low desire or desire discrepancy has become an issue in their relationship:  Obligation sex really only builds resentment and distance…. Clients who work with me on this issue explore what truly turns them on, what  THEY want for themselves and how to communicate that with their current or future partner. 

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Setting Boundaries

Consent is sexy: It’s one thing to ask for what you want, but it can be another to put a stop to what you don’t. My clients build awareness around their personal boundaries and get comfortable stating them without guilt or apology.  Consent goes great with “FRIES” - Freely given, Revocable, Informed, Enthusiastic, Specific.  

Spicing Things Up

Isn’t this always the advice friends and magazines give when intimacy issues begin to emerge? Well, yes “spicing things up” can keep things exciting but many people don’t know where to start…. Role playing, toys, ropes, oh my!  Identifying and communicating your desires can be frightening and a trip to an “adult store” can be an overwhelming experience.  Clients who work with me  find a safe space to discuss what they’re after, get educated about what’s available, and access the feelings, dynamics and experiences they crave.

Keeping the "Spark" Alive

The honeymoon period of a relationship or marriage only lasts for so long, but the next phase can-and should- be rich with intimacy and exploration. Clients who get in touch with their core desires have a better chance to keep that growing towards deeper and deeper intimacy.  Unfortunately this isn’t taught in schools, it takes intentional work on embodiment, vulnerability and boundaries to set the table for sustainable connection and fulfillment.

Hi, I'm Wendy!

Hi There, I'm Wendy! My mission is to empower and support folx to be intentional and authentic in their sexuality, and cultivate fulfilling and transformational exploration & experiences in their erotic lives. I've been helping others increase self-awareness and coaching them to get in touch with what they truly want for over 30 years.

I've developed a new approach to "Centered Sexuality©" and will guide you through a process to identify what you want and how to get it. Working with individuals or couples, I faciliate education, empowerment and exploration so that you can approach -and enjoy- your intimate and sexual life in a way that feels fulfilling to you.

I’m trained in the Somatica® Coaching Method, as a Holistic Sex Educator and certified in various personal development tools (e.g. MBTI, Strengthsfinder, DiSC).  Member of the American Association for Sex Educators, Counselors & Therapists. I hold an MS in Human Services, Leadership & Organizational Development and a BA in Political Science & Psychology.

Wendy Wolski

What you can expect from working with me....

Better communication with your significant other

Learning more about consent

Deeper intimacy

Confidence to explore what's "beyond vanilla"

Enjoying self pleasure through sensate focus

And a whole lot more

I provide personalized coaching for individuals, couples, and even group coaching. Learn more about my programs!

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"Spot on & Remarkable"

"I worked with Wendy to connect with my more erotic side and she did not disappoint. She taught me that true eroticism first comes from your connection to self and for that I am grateful. Her insights are spot on and remarkable." - Esperanza